Pretending your problems will go away and things will get better is laughable. Your relationship won’t get better if no one is addressing the elephant in the damn bed. Now that you’ve got your eye on the elephant in your bed, I want you to walk it right out of your front door and nail that baby shut.
If you’re a mother raising a daughter, you know how difficult things can become seemingly overnight. Holding on too tight or not tight enough can make for one tense rollercoaster ride that can be fatal in maintaining a healthy relationship. Such was the story of Emma and her mother’s relationship that, over time, ceased to exist, but only in her...
Four Relationship Attachment Styles Paired In Love: How to love and understand your partner’s attachment style
What does the Dismissive, Fearful, Anxious, and Secure partner look like in a relationship? Could you be a super-magnet for drawing in the worst type of partners? Would it help you to understand what it means to have more than one relationship attachment style affecting your love life?
If you really want to make your relationship work, you’ll have to meet them halfway. If you press them too hard for a change in behavior, they’ll keep their distance. Learn to back off and stop worrying. The less you stress, the more they’ll stress over you. That’s the first step to handling your commitment phobic lover. There are many...
Poisonous people make you want to please them even when you are not a people-pleaser. They have attractive personalities, but people may see them as somewhat controlling or manipulative early in the relationship. They can tear you down in a short amount of time for what seems like no reason, or if they feel a loss of control. To exist...